Dependent and Independent – I am Both
I remember one of the first times my Master and I had a conversation, and I tried to make him understand what kind of a person I was. “I am a strong and independent...
Category: Thoughts and Reflections
The Vulnerabilities of Honesty – Sharing my Thoughts and Feelings in my D/s
I am a writer. I run this blog, I am writing on a novel, I write letters every day. Most of my days are either spent with a pen in my hand or my...
A New Adventure: I am a Sex Worker
I have lived a thousand lives and have reinvented myself in many different ways. It was often more because of a need for change than because of a want for change. The things that...
Body Language in D/s Relationships
His arms are wrapped around me, my head is resting on his shoulder. Our eyes are focused on the TV screen, our brains processing what we are watching. Our mouths sometimes exclaiming wonderment or...
Goth Fashion and Goth Music
When someone looks at me, they can definitely tell that I am goth. And I have been dressing this way for almost 25 years now. What many people are not aware of is that...
Forgiveness, Anger and Healing
For many people, forgiveness is a vital step in accepting past hurt, and giving oneself a chance of moving on. It is often misunderstood as an act of absolution from someone’s abuse or mistakes,...
I am a Feminist in 2020
Feminism is a social movement, an ideology and a theoretical approach within academia. There have been several waves on feminism in the Western world, all with slightly different directions and intentions. In the 2000s,...
Body Love: Y is for Youth
It is really difficult to define when youth ends and middle age begins. The lines are blurred because we live in an age where certain milestones are not happening for everyone. They are also...
The Soundtrack of My Life
Music has always played a huge part in my life. It has been my refuge many times and the music I listened to always somehow represented where I stood, who my friends were and...
BDSM and Kink in Porn and Erotica
My sexuality and my interest in kink and BDSM are not linked to the sort of erotica and porn I consumed when I was younger. I was a teenager in the 90s and we...
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