Limits and Boundaries in D/s Relationships
It is an interesting fact that both my Master and I first learnt about boundaries when we were doing volunteer work in mental health. I have always had a difficult time saying no and...
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30 Days of Submission – Day 30: A Need to be Dominated
Is your need to submit being met? If not, or if your situation changed, do you think that you could continue in your life and still be happy/content if you were never able to...
Our D/s Dynamic needed a Boost again
No relationship is perfect. Mine definitely isn’t. But I am more happy than not when it comes to the way things usually look like for us. A big part of our connection is the...
The Deconstruction of Labels in BDSM and D/s
I understand the need for labeling who we are in relationships, in our sexuality, and in different areas of our lives. A label can give us a feeling of belonging and makes it easier...
Discipline in D/s Relationships – Is it for me?
I have never been someone who followed the rules. I question authority and try to change rules that I feel are immoral or arbitrary. That is maybe not the best trait for a submissive....
Respect in D/s – Redefining Respect in Play
Most well-functioning relationships have a strong foundation in some basic ideas of honesty, communication and respect. If you are unable to be yourself and trust the person you are in a romantic connection or...
D/S Relationships and Resets – Sliding Dynamics and Bratty Moments
When people read up on Dominant/submissive relationships and BDSM, they often get presented with shiny ideals where roles are forever set in stone and the power exchange runs smoothly once the consent discussion has...
Unconventional Connection
I have never really been one for conventional relationships. My longest and most successful relationship during my teenage years was with an asexual biromantic man. My longest relationship so far had been with someone...
Rituals in D/s Relationships – Not For Me
A strange kind of loveA strange kind of feelingSwims through your eyesAnd like the doorsTo a wide vast dominionThey open to your prize I understand why D/s couples would want to implement rituals in...
D/s Relationships: Issues and Solutions
It is quite interesting to read about other people’s experiences with their D/s relationships, both what the submissives and the Dominants have to say. What I have realized is that most actually struggle with...
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