Mind-blowing Sex or the End of the Road – What’s Next?
I really don’t want to begin this post with some cliché bullshit about how life has been busy, I didn’t prioritize right, and hey, remember me, I am the crazy chick you used to...
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I tell you what I want – what I really really want. D/s, Needs and Wants
The wants and needs in a D/s relationship should be pretty easy to describe. Someone has the need to be dominated and be submissive, the partner wants to dominate and have control. But it...
Radical Acceptance, Goals and D/s
There are so many things that I do that others would most definitely see as bad habits. Small things that might be detrimental to my health, to my well-being or even my relationships. I...
Thirteen Things I love about D/s – Kinky Advent Calendar – Day 13
Behind door 13 is a list of thirteen things that I love about D/s and submission. It would seem like I’d be able to come up with a long list of things in no...
Serving Him – Kinky Advent Calendar – Day 12
I am not exactly what you would call a service submissive. Being a brat entails for me that I am not automatically submissive, but more playful and need to be shown my place. Service...
The Need For Aftercare in BDSM and D/s
Aftercare in BDSM is caring for each other after a scene, play or an intense session. It is often an essential part of the relationship between everyone involved in a D/s connection, whether it...
Limits and Boundaries in D/s Relationships
It is an interesting fact that both my Master and I first learnt about boundaries when we were doing volunteer work in mental health. I have always had a difficult time saying no and...
30 Days of Submission – Day 30: A Need to be Dominated
Is your need to submit being met? If not, or if your situation changed, do you think that you could continue in your life and still be happy/content if you were never able to...
Our D/s Dynamic needed a Boost again
No relationship is perfect. Mine definitely isn’t. But I am more happy than not when it comes to the way things usually look like for us. A big part of our connection is the...
The Deconstruction of Labels in BDSM and D/s
I understand the need for labeling who we are in relationships, in our sexuality, and in different areas of our lives. A label can give us a feeling of belonging and makes it easier...
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