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BDSM & D/s / January Jumpstart 2020 / My Personal Sex Experiences / Tell Me About

January 16, 2020

I am a masochist and a painslut

I am a masochist. But I have long struggled with accepting that side of myself because it somehow implies that something just isn’t right with me. I have a history of self-harm and I...

BDSM & D/s / January Jumpstart 2020 / Kink Information / Kink of the Week

January 14, 2020

Marks and Bruises from BDSM Play – Hard to Get

The kind of sex that I engage in should leave marks on my body. Only, it doesn’t in the way that you think it would. It doesn’t matter how hard or how long we...

BDSM & D/s / January Jumpstart 2020 / Kink Information / Masturbation Monday / My Personal Sex Experiences

January 12, 2020

This Is Not A Game

He rarely does that. Control my orgasms. There is a certain pleasure in seeing your partner twitch in ecstasy, watching them lose control over their body and mind, and knowing that you have caused...

BDSM & D/s / January Jumpstart 2020 / Tell Me About

January 2, 2020

The Submissive Mindset

In D/s dynamics, we might identify with one role or the other, but often enough that role is not all that we are. That part of us needs to be tickled out, needs to...

BDSM & D/s / Kink Information / Kink of the Week / My Personal Sex Experiences

December 28, 2019

Public Play Party Experience

Public play and going to kink related events isn’t necessary one of my favourite things in the world to do. But it is something that is both intriguing and fascinating: I get to see...

Erotic Fiction / Masturbation Monday

December 24, 2019

Nasty Snow Angel

It is so cold. I stop walking. I don’t want to make another move. I want to disappear into myself and find warmth. I need something soothing that covers my exposed body. “Why did...

BDSM & D/s / Tell Me About

December 21, 2019

Control in D/s – Ambiguity of Emotions

I have always been a control freak. I need to know the whats and whys, to make sure that I feel safe. It has a lot to do with hypervigilance coming from anxiety and...

BDSM & D/s / Wicked Wednesday

December 19, 2019

I Am Naughty – The naughty submissive and the mischievous brat

I love being naughty, in both all the mischievous and all the sexual ways. I don’t even pretend to be a good girl. Although sometimes I want to be one. Or better said: I...

BDSM & D/s / My Personal Sex Experiences / Tell Me About

December 6, 2019

My Sexual Fantasies – Private Kinks, Pansexual Needs and Being Whored Out

For most of my life, my sexual fantasies had stayed in the realm of my imagination. I am not shy to talk about things in a public setting like my blog. But if any...