My Sexual Fantasies – Private Kinks, Pansexual Needs and Being Whored Out
For most of my life, my sexual fantasies had stayed in the realm of my imagination. I am not shy to talk about things in a public setting like my blog. But if any...
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Primal Scream
I am watching you. I want you to touch me. I want you to hurt me. I want you to torture me. But I wait. I am the prey that wants to be caught,...
Submissive Training – How Erotic Hypnosis Enhanced My Submission
In some D/s relationship forms, the training of the submissive is a huge part of the connection. If you are a Disciplinarian Dom, or a slave submissive, a servant or just in a very...
Slutty Fantasy: Fiery Torture
The smokey air of the burning fire made me feel a bit dizzy, in a cozy and comfortable way. We had been sitting around the flames for a while now, the four of us....
D/S Relationships and Resets – Sliding Dynamics and Bratty Moments
When people read up on Dominant/submissive relationships and BDSM, they often get presented with shiny ideals where roles are forever set in stone and the power exchange runs smoothly once the consent discussion has...
BDSM Scenes – To Play or Not to Play, That is the Question
There is a general assumption that BDSM play is all about planned through scenes: negotiations beforehand, consent and making sure that everyone has agreed on what is going to happen. It has a lot...
Safe Words – Expressions of Accountability and Responsibility
Safewords are often the one thing that people know about BDSM play and D/s connections. They are the poster child for the kink community to show that kinky sex is safe, sane and consensual....
Anal Sex in BDSM Play
I have written about anal sex before, as a fantasy but also as something that my Master and I engage in. My first proper anal sex experience has only happened recently. But ever since...
Consent in D/s and BDSM – No One Way
Consent to engage in sexual or romantic activities is not only important in D/s or BDSM contexts but in all human connections. Sex, play and romantic gestures should not be driven by lust, love...
Rituals in D/s Relationships – Not For Me
A strange kind of loveA strange kind of feelingSwims through your eyesAnd like the doorsTo a wide vast dominionThey open to your prize I understand why D/s couples would want to implement rituals in...
