Emotional and Physical Intimacy & D/s
Intimacy is such a difficult concept to describe. It could just be about certain aspects of closeness, of physical touch and connection. You can be emotionally intimate with friends and family. You can share...
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Oral Sex – BDSM enough?
Honky-tonk devils glitter inLike royal rats in kitten skinAnd all the blondes drop their panties and cryTo the father’s first lullaby So let me paint you with my loveWith my love, with my love “Paint you with my...
Limits and Boundaries in D/s Relationships
It is an interesting fact that both my Master and I first learnt about boundaries when we were doing volunteer work in mental health. I have always had a difficult time saying no and...
30 Days of Submission – Day 30: A Need to be Dominated
Is your need to submit being met? If not, or if your situation changed, do you think that you could continue in your life and still be happy/content if you were never able to...
Nudity and D/s – Safety in Vulnerability
I’m not particularly fond of my body. I avoid looking at it in mirrors and I even don’t look at myself when taking a shower. I just don’t find it aesthetically pleasing. So I...
30 Days of Submission – Day 29: Pain and Humiliation
Is pain or humiliation (spankings for example) a part of your submission? What is your relationship to it? Do you embrace it as a part of your submission, tolerate it as necessary or have...
Voyeurism – Not for Me
I am not attracted to bodies. It is not the first thing I notice about someone, and it is not the first thing that makes me want to pursue any kind of romantic and...
Our D/s Dynamic needed a Boost again
No relationship is perfect. Mine definitely isn’t. But I am more happy than not when it comes to the way things usually look like for us. A big part of our connection is the...
The Deconstruction of Labels in BDSM and D/s
I understand the need for labeling who we are in relationships, in our sexuality, and in different areas of our lives. A label can give us a feeling of belonging and makes it easier...
Plushies – From sentimental value to sexy play
I am usually not someone who is like everyone else, especially not when it comes to childhood experiences. But there is one thing that I had just like everyone else: plushies. I used to...
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