Voyeurism – Not for Me
I am not attracted to bodies. It is not the first thing I notice about someone, and it is not the first thing that makes me want to pursue any kind of romantic and...
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Our D/s Dynamic needed a Boost again
No relationship is perfect. Mine definitely isn’t. But I am more happy than not when it comes to the way things usually look like for us. A big part of our connection is the...
The Deconstruction of Labels in BDSM and D/s
I understand the need for labeling who we are in relationships, in our sexuality, and in different areas of our lives. A label can give us a feeling of belonging and makes it easier...
Plushies – From sentimental value to sexy play
I am usually not someone who is like everyone else, especially not when it comes to childhood experiences. But there is one thing that I had just like everyone else: plushies. I used to...
Dependent and Independent – I am Both
I remember one of the first times my Master and I had a conversation, and I tried to make him understand what kind of a person I was. “I am a strong and independent...
The Vulnerabilities of Honesty – Sharing my Thoughts and Feelings in my D/s
I am a writer. I run this blog, I am writing on a novel, I write letters every day. Most of my days are either spent with a pen in my hand or my...
The Joys of Flogging
I love impact play. I’m a masochist so I am generally into receiving pain during sexual play, and one of the easiest ways for a masochist to get pain is through, yes you know...
Body Language in D/s Relationships
His arms are wrapped around me, my head is resting on his shoulder. Our eyes are focused on the TV screen, our brains processing what we are watching. Our mouths sometimes exclaiming wonderment or...
30 Days of Submission – Day 28: The Perfect Submissive?
Has your submission ever let you down? Have you ever been criticized for your submission? Have you ever regretted being or feeling submissive in a moment or in a relationship? Have you ever looked...
Erotic Photography and D/s – What is the Connection?
Erotic photography and taking sexy pictures of myself is a quite new interest of mine. I have always struggled with my body image and internalized fatphobia for a long time. And I thought that...
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