The Submissive Mindset
In D/s dynamics, we might identify with one role or the other, but often enough that role is not all that we are. That part of us needs to be tickled out, needs to...
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I Am Naughty – The naughty submissive and the mischievous brat
I love being naughty, in both all the mischievous and all the sexual ways. I don’t even pretend to be a good girl. Although sometimes I want to be one. Or better said: I...
Submissive Training – How Erotic Hypnosis Enhanced My Submission
In some D/s relationship forms, the training of the submissive is a huge part of the connection. If you are a Disciplinarian Dom, or a slave submissive, a servant or just in a very...
Fisting – Feeling Fully Controlled
I am in a blissful space. Orgasm after orgasm has already run through my exhausted body. I am wet and spent. But he is determined to push me over the edge, to make me...
D/S Relationships and Resets – Sliding Dynamics and Bratty Moments
When people read up on Dominant/submissive relationships and BDSM, they often get presented with shiny ideals where roles are forever set in stone and the power exchange runs smoothly once the consent discussion has...
BDSM Scenes – To Play or Not to Play, That is the Question
There is a general assumption that BDSM play is all about planned through scenes: negotiations beforehand, consent and making sure that everyone has agreed on what is going to happen. It has a lot...
Unconventional Connection
I have never really been one for conventional relationships. My longest and most successful relationship during my teenage years was with an asexual biromantic man. My longest relationship so far had been with someone...
Safe Words – Expressions of Accountability and Responsibility
Safewords are often the one thing that people know about BDSM play and D/s connections. They are the poster child for the kink community to show that kinky sex is safe, sane and consensual....
Consent in D/s and BDSM – No One Way
Consent to engage in sexual or romantic activities is not only important in D/s or BDSM contexts but in all human connections. Sex, play and romantic gestures should not be driven by lust, love...
Rituals in D/s Relationships – Not For Me
A strange kind of loveA strange kind of feelingSwims through your eyesAnd like the doorsTo a wide vast dominionThey open to your prize I understand why D/s couples would want to implement rituals in...
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