He Is Watching Me
A D/s relationship often evolves around kink and sex, at least for the majority of people. There are certainly those that have non-sexual D/s connections, and they are just as valid. But I assume...
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My Sexual Journey
I love sex. When you come to my blog, that is probably one of the first things you notice about me. I am a very sexual person and I don’t hide that fact. But...
The Need For Aftercare in BDSM and D/s
Aftercare in BDSM is caring for each other after a scene, play or an intense session. It is often an essential part of the relationship between everyone involved in a D/s connection, whether it...
Emotional and Physical Intimacy & D/s
Intimacy is such a difficult concept to describe. It could just be about certain aspects of closeness, of physical touch and connection. You can be emotionally intimate with friends and family. You can share...
Oral Sex – BDSM enough?
Honky-tonk devils glitter inLike royal rats in kitten skinAnd all the blondes drop their panties and cryTo the father’s first lullaby So let me paint you with my loveWith my love, with my love “Paint you with my...
Nudity and D/s – Safety in Vulnerability
I’m not particularly fond of my body. I avoid looking at it in mirrors and I even don’t look at myself when taking a shower. I just don’t find it aesthetically pleasing. So I...
Voyeurism – Not for Me
I am not attracted to bodies. It is not the first thing I notice about someone, and it is not the first thing that makes me want to pursue any kind of romantic and...
The Deconstruction of Labels in BDSM and D/s
I understand the need for labeling who we are in relationships, in our sexuality, and in different areas of our lives. A label can give us a feeling of belonging and makes it easier...
The Vulnerabilities of Honesty – Sharing my Thoughts and Feelings in my D/s
I am a writer. I run this blog, I am writing on a novel, I write letters every day. Most of my days are either spent with a pen in my hand or my...
Pleasure, D/s and BDSM
We are all pleasure seekers. Everyone wants to experience as many happy moments as possible. That hedonistic devil on our shoulder is constantly pushing us to chase the next high, the next orgasm, the...
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