Emotional and Physical Intimacy & D/s
Intimacy is such a difficult concept to describe. It could just be about certain aspects of closeness, of physical touch and connection. You can be emotionally intimate with friends and family. You can share...
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Oral Sex – BDSM enough?
Honky-tonk devils glitter inLike royal rats in kitten skinAnd all the blondes drop their panties and cryTo the father’s first lullaby So let me paint you with my loveWith my love, with my love “Paint you with my...
Nudity and D/s – Safety in Vulnerability
I’m not particularly fond of my body. I avoid looking at it in mirrors and I even don’t look at myself when taking a shower. I just don’t find it aesthetically pleasing. So I...
Voyeurism – Not for Me
I am not attracted to bodies. It is not the first thing I notice about someone, and it is not the first thing that makes me want to pursue any kind of romantic and...
The Deconstruction of Labels in BDSM and D/s
I understand the need for labeling who we are in relationships, in our sexuality, and in different areas of our lives. A label can give us a feeling of belonging and makes it easier...
The Vulnerabilities of Honesty – Sharing my Thoughts and Feelings in my D/s
I am a writer. I run this blog, I am writing on a novel, I write letters every day. Most of my days are either spent with a pen in my hand or my...
Pleasure, D/s and BDSM
We are all pleasure seekers. Everyone wants to experience as many happy moments as possible. That hedonistic devil on our shoulder is constantly pushing us to chase the next high, the next orgasm, the...
Service Submission
Service submission is an act that involves the submissive in a D/s relationship being of service to the Dominant in the connection. The term service can have a plethora of meanings and expressions, but...
Lockdown: Changes, Fears and Positives
Everyone in the world is experiencing some sort of restrictions on their daily lives at the moment. In some countries it is about a total lockdown, others have only certain rules in order, and...
Wax Play – Sensual Pain Play
Wax play is one of the few planned BDSM play time activities that I enjoy. I usually love going with the flow, fighting for control and spontaneous sexy play. I get too distracted and...
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