I am a kinky pervert – but it doesn’t define me
It has been on my mind lately. My sexuality and how little I share about it with the people I interact with the most. I seem open and free with my sexuality, my body...
Tagged: mental health
“What happened to you?” – The Connection Between Addiction and Trauma
Addiction, just like many other terms that come from the psychological corner of thought, has been adopted as a term to describe behaviours or feelings that really have nothing to do with the reality...
Systemfluidity – Gender Identity and Dissociative Identity Disorder
Gender is complicated. It is about feelings and identity, it is about relating to your physical body and feeling comfortable with how others see you. It is intertwined with body image, with sexuality, with...
Libido – Between Highs and Lows
Libido, or sexual desire, is complicated.. You can have too much or too little. Sometimes it is overwhelmingly strong but there is no way to make use of it. Other times you would really...
A Nuanced Perspective on Platitudes? – I tried but failed
I hate platitudes. They are invalidating of people’s pain and they try to shut people up when they are trying to show their emotions. Platitudes are short expressions that you can tell someone who...
Social Media – Some Thoughts
Do you remember the good old times when social media wasn’t invented yet? When our social interactions were limited to the people we actually knew from real life, people we had met? I don’t...
Anxiety and Sex: Expectations, Body Image and the Past
In society, sex is portrayed as a pleasurable activity. And that most things can be overcome with the help of consent, communication and honesty. Heck, even I preach those things. Sex is fun, sex...
Born Again
I am a flake. A flakey flake. All my life I have been deeply engrossed in certain things, projects, studies, relationships and jobs, only to abandon everything all of the sudden. There were often...
The Boy That You Loved Is the Man That You Fear – When The Mighty Fall
TW/CW: mention of abuse, victim blaming I have been wanting to write this post for a while but I just couldn’t get myself to actually sit down and think about the mess that was...
Hugging My Subconscious Mind
I wouldn’t call myself a pessimist. I am more of a realist. You could say that I don’t necessarily see the good, or the bad. I just see things the way that they are....
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