Category: Thoughts and Reflections
Hypervigilance: A Sixth Sense?
I often find that people connect abilities that are quite human and shaped by our experiences and skills with something supernatural. Someone who is great at understanding others thinks they can read people’s minds....
The 90s – CDs, the radio, record stores and my favourite tunes
t is sort of odd to think about that the 1990s started 30 years ago. Am I really that old? For me, that decade was hip, especially when it comes to music! We were...
My Approach to Personal Growth
The ability and freedom to actively work on your personal growth is a privilege. For someone to be in a place where they can focus on becoming a better human being, not by accidental...
Starfuckers
My god sits in the back of the limousineMy god comes in a wrapper of cellophaneMy god pouts on the cover of the magazineMy god’s a shallow little bitch trying to make the scene...
Just a Rant
I have been feeling really disconnected from everything lately. I don’t know how else to describe it. It is a feeling of not belonging. I don’t mean in a dissociative way which usually is...
Our D/s Dynamic needed a Boost again
No relationship is perfect. Mine definitely isn’t. But I am more happy than not when it comes to the way things usually look like for us. A big part of our connection is the...
The Deconstruction of Labels in BDSM and D/s
I understand the need for labeling who we are in relationships, in our sexuality, and in different areas of our lives. A label can give us a feeling of belonging and makes it easier...
Words are my Friends
Words are my friends. I can play with them, they are safe and they are there when I need them. I just wished that I sometimes could control them better. And I want to...
Lack of Self-Confidence and the Desire for a Quick Fix
I have written about subjects related to confidence many times on this blog. It is a topic that I often struggle with because there are so many areas in which I feel like I...
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