Consent in D/s and BDSM – No One Way
Consent to engage in sexual or romantic activities is not only important in D/s or BDSM contexts but in all human connections. Sex, play and romantic gestures should not be driven by lust, love...
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Rituals in D/s Relationships – Not For Me
A strange kind of loveA strange kind of feelingSwims through your eyesAnd like the doorsTo a wide vast dominionThey open to your prize I understand why D/s couples would want to implement rituals in...
FrienD/s – Kinky Friendships
If you would meet me in real life, you would consider me being very confident in social situations. And I can sure pretend that I am! I used to be the center of every...
Public Play – Kink Events, Dungeons and Play Parties
The first time I went to a kink event was when I was around 18 years old. I didn’t go there to play. And I didn’t have any (conscious) interest in BDSM. I went...
The Power Exchange in my D/s relationship
I never thought I would end up in a relationship with an agreed upon power exchange, let alone be the submissive part in such a relationship. The urge to try out being the submissive...
Erotic Humiliation
Erotic humiliation or erotic degradation is something that I very much enjoy. In all of the D/s relationships I have been in so far, it has been as much part of our sexlife as...
Dominance in D/s and BDSM
It feels a bit odd to discuss dominance because I identify as a submissive. Although, dominance and submission are intrinsically linked and one doesn’t make much sense without the other. There are many different...
Trust Issues and Safety Bubbles
I’ve had trust issues all my life. From a very young age, I got taught that it was unsafe to show emotions, that showing weakness meant punishment. I realized that trusting someone with who...
Spankies! – Spanking in BDSM Play
Impact play is an integral part of Masters S’ and my relationship. Ever since I realized that I could let go with him, my masochistic side has been having a field trip. I knew...
Warship my Wreck – I need rules with consequences!
Can not say, I am breaking the rules, if I can glue them back together. – ‘Warship my Wreck’ – Marilyn Manson I have been thinking about writing this post for a while and...
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