“Ouchie! – No, Don’t Stop!” – Is Painplay Self-Harm?
I have a lot of anxiety. I am not talking about being worried or being stressed. Those are of course also quite frustrating experiences but they might not reach the intensity of emotions that...
Category: Thoughts and Reflections
30 Days of Submission – Day 14: Religion and Submission
Does religion have any bearing on your decision to submit? If not, are you familiar with religious based submission and do you view it as similar to other types of submission or dissimilar? Religion...
Squirty Girl – Waterfalls and Mops
I unleashed my sexual desires late in life. It was first in my mid 30s that I realized that there was more out there for me than the bimonthly 15 minutes of vanilla sex....
30 Days of Submission – Day 13: Sexual Availability
Is sexual availability, being available to your partner any time he or she wants, part of your submission? Why or why not? Are there limits to this? Sexual availability is one of the main...
Spread a Little Love
I am quite new in the sex blogging community. And I actually would have never thought I’d end up putting so much effort and time into writing about sex, kink, BDSM, D/s relationships, writing...
30 Days of Submission – Day 12: Financial Submission
Do you include financial submission within the definition of your own submission and if yes, how does it manifest itself? If no, is there a particular reason why? Are you familiar with the concepts...
30 Days of Submission – Day 11: Service Submission
Do you include service as a part of your expectations of your submission? How do you define service? What does it mean to you? If not, what is it about the concept of service...
30 Days of Submission: Day 10 – BDSM
Does any element of BDSM occur as a part of your submissive relationships? How do you feel about BDSM? Is it core to your submission, peripheral or non-existent (other than the submission part)? This was kind...
Never Again …
Never again am I going to have vanilla sex. Boom. When most people think about things they have done sexually that they never want to engage in again, it is often about a kink,...
Gaslighting: Is it all my fault? – Broken by Manipulation
Did you know that there is a natural tendency for abusers to find their victims? They don’t look for the strong that they can break, they can sense your weaknesses through whatever walls you...
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