The caretaker that is now being taken care of
I am a natural caretaker. I love supporting others, giving them a safe space to just talk and vent in. As a matter of fact, for over four years I have volunteered in the...
Category: Thoughts and Reflections
Hiding in the Shadows – BDSM is still unmentionable
Most people hide certain things about themselves from others and the reasons for that can be aplenty. That is how the social game works, that is how society works. There are topics that are...
30 Days of Submission – Day 4: Itching to Switch?
Do you switch into a dominant role at any time? If you are in a domestic discipline relationship, are there things that you maintain control over? Are you a “switch” in BDSM terms? If...
30 Days of Submission – Day 2: Who gets my submission?
Describe who you might submit to and how. Are you exclusively submissive in marriage or just in the bedroom? Are you submissive only in the context of a scene or in a role or...
30 Days of Submission: Day 1 – Labelling My Submission
Does your submission – either what you practice or what you strive for – have a label? Do you view your submission as Taken in Hand, domestic discipline, top/bottom, dominant/submissive, master/slave, owner/pet, or some...
Fantasy Fuck List
I am really weird when it comes to sexual fantasies. Well, not weird weird. Or maybe I am weird weird? What I mean is, that I can’t imagine having sex with someone that I...
Childhood Abuse and Adulthood Sexuality
This topic is a really heavy one and although I would love to talk about the abuse I have been through during childhood, I doubt it would be much to my benefit, or anyone...
Madness and Despair – Sex and BDSM are my save haven
My mental health is a mess. I am a mess. I would try to make it sound like a beautiful mess if I could. But it is really a horrible, terrifying and overwhelmingly broken...
Food For Thought – The Good, The Bad and The Meh of Sex
Sadly enough, it took up until my mid 30s to actually discover my sexual self. While most people try things out during their teens, become more confident and more aware of what they like...
Bondage – Tied Up, Bound and Helplessly Blissful
Bondage for me is more of a lighter form of physical BDSM because it doesn’t involve the strength of impact, painplay in general or even sexual submission. It is slower, sensual, requires patience and...
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