The Power Exchange in my D/s relationship
I never thought I would end up in a relationship with an agreed upon power exchange, let alone be the submissive part in such a relationship. The urge to try out being the submissive...
Category: Thoughts and Reflections
How A Porn Film Shaped My Sexuality
Let me tell you a story. I was about 11 years old and I was alone at home. This was in the early 1990s. My parents and my siblings were on a day out...
Tired, oh so tired! – PCOS and Hashimoto’s are a drag!
Hormones. Those buggers! They have a huge influence on how I am doing and what my sexlife looks like. And not only that, they also influence what I look like. I am blessed (*cough*)...
Trauma Ruins Your Body Just As Much As It Ruins Your Mind
I wanted to write a post about perfectionism and imposter syndrome (which I periodically struggle with) but decided to write about a topic that has been spooking in my mind for quite some time,...
Sunshine Blogger Award
The wonderful Jupiter Grant nominated me for a Sunshine Blogger Award. It does sound fancy, doesn’t it? Award? Thank you so very much, darling! It is a superfun thing to join in on, because...
“Crazy Fucks Best!” – Making The Mentally Ill Seem Sexually Deviant And Inferior
Let me start this off by saying that I dislike when people use the term “crazy” to describe someone. It is a derogatory way of saying that someone is mentally ill. But the mental...
Body Love: My Master’s Body
I have this weird thing about being physically attracted to someone. I am just not feeling it. I can count the number of times I felt an instant physical attraction to another person, on...
Agoraphobia – Voluntary Imprisonment
Many of my previous posts on mental health and mental illness might have indicated that I have a slight problem with anxiety. Okay, okay. I have a major problem with anxiety! I have several...
You Gotta Talk, Darling! – Conscious Communication in Relationships
I am a good listener: I don’t judge and I am open-minded. I don’t start talking about myself when someone shares their struggles with me. Genuinely, I like to listen and validate other people’s...
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