Reaching Out – Why My Support System is Tiny
I think I am a hypocrite. I always tell people that it is important to reach out, that they need to expand their support system and that they need to take that leap of...
Category: Thoughts and Reflections
Taboo Kinks – When You Get Shamed For What Turns You On
The specific definition of the word taboo is very subjective and hence is often based on judgment and societal pressure. That means that it is contextual: it depends on where you have grown up,...
Masturbation is Self-Care
You hear and read it everywhere. People are sharing their experiences from retreats and work-shops. Yoga weekends, mindfulness classes and spa weeks. That all sounds fancy pancy and is probably great for those who...
Medicalisation of Society – Trauma
This is an older post on mental health that I have written on another blog of mine. You can find the original post from April 2018 here. Different times in history have had a...
Dissociative Identity Disorder and Relationships – It’s Complicated!
I wasn’t sure if I should write this post because, well, it is complicated. I feel like with most of what I write, people can still find points they can relate to or are...
Self-Invalidation: When your own feelings don’t matter to yourself
Validating someone’s feelings is not a difficult task to do. It is about acknowledging their emotions and showing an understanding for their current emotional state. It doesn’t mean that how they express those feelings...
Fake Confidence: The Queen of Selfies
I don’t have a lot of confidence when it comes to my looks. I know that it might seem different to those seeing my pictures or even those I run into in real life....
My Mental Illness Makes My Sexlife Better
I think for most readers of this blog, it has become quite apparent that my mental health issues have a huge impact on my life. And unfortunately, that impact is not exactly positive. I...
Triggers – Going Down To Trigger Town
The word trigger is overused these days. And because of that, most people don’t take it seriously when someone legitimately expresses that they have been triggered. Instead of its original meaning, which is being...
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