The Vulnerabilities of Honesty – Sharing my Thoughts and Feelings in my D/s
I am a writer. I run this blog, I am writing on a novel, I write letters every day. Most of my days are either spent with a pen in my hand or my...
Category: Relationships
Body Language in D/s Relationships
His arms are wrapped around me, my head is resting on his shoulder. Our eyes are focused on the TV screen, our brains processing what we are watching. Our mouths sometimes exclaiming wonderment or...
30 Days of Submission – Day 28: The Perfect Submissive?
Has your submission ever let you down? Have you ever been criticized for your submission? Have you ever regretted being or feeling submissive in a moment or in a relationship? Have you ever looked...
Discipline in D/s Relationships – Is it for me?
I have never been someone who followed the rules. I question authority and try to change rules that I feel are immoral or arbitrary. That is maybe not the best trait for a submissive....
Long Distance Relationships and Staying Connected
Long distance relationships are difficult, even with all the modern possibilities to stay connected. The physical touch, the smell of the person that you love, the intimacy of a hug and the connection that...
Maintenance Sex
We have all read about and if we are lucky enough even experienced, the amazing sex that creates fireworks in our bodies and minds. Hours of play and fun, of primal arousal. Slow and...
Littles and Sex – The Importance of Boundaries with Dissociative Identity Disorder
I have written about my Dissociative Identity Disorder before, and the complications and struggles it brings to my life and my relationships. One of the areas that become very complicated is sex. In this...
Hugs Are Essential In My Relationship
Hugs are a way to connect with other people. They soothe emotions, they express comfort, care and love. These days, they are more scarce. With social distancing, not being able to meet with those...
Respect in D/s – Redefining Respect in Play
Most well-functioning relationships have a strong foundation in some basic ideas of honesty, communication and respect. If you are unable to be yourself and trust the person you are in a romantic connection or...
Co-Dependency and Inter-Dependency in Relationships
There are a lot of theories around the term co-dependency. It is often used in the self-help community to describe unhealthy behaviour in relationships and family dynamics. But it is important to note that...
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