I am pansexual but I don’t feel LGBTQ+
My sexual orientation has never been an issue for me. No, let me say it differently. I have never felt the need to “come out”. Whoever I felt sexually or romantically attracted to, had...
Category: Relationships
Love Letter to My Master
Dear Master, can you believe it? That we ended up together? I sometimes can’t fathom that I am so lucky to be with someone who knows everything about me, and still wants to stay....
Romance in D/s Relationships
I’m not a very romantic person. At least not in the sort of way that today’s society makes you think that romance should look like. I quite abhor grand gestures, romantic dinners in expensive...
Emotional Intimacy: I need a deeper connection than touch
The first thing she notices when his hand lifts from covering her eyes is the 19th century canopy bed. Her senses are being tickled by the scented candles he had lit, and placed all...
Love Made Me Do It – Moving Countries
I don’t do relationships the same way most people do, and I definitely do love differently. Love for me is a feeling, and as that, it is something that everyone experiences. But there is...
Cynical About Marriage – Still, I did it again!
I got married on Halloween. It was a small ceremony, I didn’t buy any fancy clothes, there was no reception. But people expected me to have those things because that is what a wedding...
Faking Orgasms – A Way to Avoid Communication?
There is this odd concept that the goal of all pleasurable sexual activity needs to be a mindblowing orgasm. Supposedly, that is not only important for the person experiencing the orgasm, but also for...
D/S Relationships and Resets – Sliding Dynamics and Bratty Moments
When people read up on Dominant/submissive relationships and BDSM, they often get presented with shiny ideals where roles are forever set in stone and the power exchange runs smoothly once the consent discussion has...
You Observe Me
Your eyes. Your brown eyes with the grey circles that only show in certain angles and when the light hits them just right. Behind those glasses that perfectly accentuate those windows to who you...
Mental Illness and Dating – You are lovable
I had a very interesting conversation with a friend the other day. We were talking about mental illness and getting laid, or getting into relationships. They were asking me how I managed to get...
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