Dominance in D/s and BDSM
It feels a bit odd to discuss dominance because I identify as a submissive. Although, dominance and submission are intrinsically linked and one doesn’t make much sense without the other. There are many different...
Category: Thoughts and Reflections
My Own Personal Torture Chamber – A Sexual Room 101 and Public Nudity
I have read George Orwell’s “1984” many times, for pleasure, high school classes and university classes. I love dystopian novels, and as a matter of fact, I even wrote my thesis in literary studies...
30 Days of Submission – Day 25: Objects and Rituals
Are there items, objects or rituals that represent or help you express submission? If not, have you ever thought of adding or being gifted one? Is there a special significance to these objects or...
What is Love? – A Different Perspective
What is love? I know, most of you probably started humming the Haddaway song! Baby don’t hurt me, don’t hurt me, no more! I think most people have a black and white vision when...
Aging and Sex – Get Your Sexy on Later in Life
A lot of people worry about what their sex life will be like once they are older. I don’t think I am one of those people. My sex life has improved with age. The...
30 Days of Submission – Day 24: Feelings
What are the emotions that most directly let you access submission? What feelings do they inspire? My ability to slide into a submissive space is closely related to experiencing the right feelings in that...
Of Purpose Balloons, Quality Of Life and Landmarks
The moment you look at back your life, pondering about what you have achieved so far, can be both satisfying and disappointing. I find the idea of planning things ahead in meticulous detail a...
30 Days of Submission – Day 23: Questioning my Submission
Is there anything about submission (yours or what you see in others) that you question, dislike or repels you? Was there a time you questioned or were resistant to your own submissive feelings? I...
30 Days of Submission – Day 22: Submission without a Dominant
Can you feel submission without a dominant partner? If so, how does your submission express itself? If not, how do you handle your submission or submissive feelings? I had to think hard about this....
Ashamed of who I am
There are going to be moments when you need to make that one decision. How much do you let someone know about who you are? How vulnerable do you allow yourself to be with...
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