I am a kinky pervert – but it doesn’t define me
It has been on my mind lately. My sexuality and how little I share about it with the people I interact with the most. I seem open and free with my sexuality, my body...
Tagged: thoughts and reflections
“What happened to you?” – The Connection Between Addiction and Trauma
Addiction, just like many other terms that come from the psychological corner of thought, has been adopted as a term to describe behaviours or feelings that really have nothing to do with the reality...
A Nuanced Perspective on Platitudes? – I tried but failed
I hate platitudes. They are invalidating of people’s pain and they try to shut people up when they are trying to show their emotions. Platitudes are short expressions that you can tell someone who...
Social Media – Some Thoughts
Do you remember the good old times when social media wasn’t invented yet? When our social interactions were limited to the people we actually knew from real life, people we had met? I don’t...
Anxiety and Sex: Expectations, Body Image and the Past
In society, sex is portrayed as a pleasurable activity. And that most things can be overcome with the help of consent, communication and honesty. Heck, even I preach those things. Sex is fun, sex...
The Boy That You Loved Is the Man That You Fear – When The Mighty Fall
TW/CW: mention of abuse, victim blaming I have been wanting to write this post for a while but I just couldn’t get myself to actually sit down and think about the mess that was...
Hugging My Subconscious Mind
I wouldn’t call myself a pessimist. I am more of a realist. You could say that I don’t necessarily see the good, or the bad. I just see things the way that they are....
Ring All The Bells You Can Ring
I don’t usually listen to songs that instill hope in me or are supposed to instill hope in anyone, really. I like songs and lyrics that tell a story, or that express an emotional...
Bye Bye, 2020!
Now, wasn’t this one hell of a year? I know that for many this must have been the worst year of their lives, when their more or less privileged normal lives got interrupted by...
Festive Fantasy? – Kinky Advent Calendar 2020 – Day 14
I have been wrecking my brain about any festive fantasy that I could share. I don’t think I have any! Sure, I could talk about being punished and used by Krampus because I have...
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