I need to survive, eh?
I am not someone who enjoys rituals. You might think that a submissive in a D/s relationship, someone like me, adores the idea of strict rituals that deepen the meaning of my connection with...
Tagged: reflections
Authenticity and Blogging: Know Thyself and Be Thyself
I have been blogging in this particular space since the end of March this year. So almost five months. In the blogging world that is still a toddler learning to crawl. I am a...
Medicalisation of Society – Trauma
This is an older post on mental health that I have written on another blog of mine. You can find the original post from April 2018 here. Different times in history have had a...
Self-Invalidation: When your own feelings don’t matter to yourself
Validating someone’s feelings is not a difficult task to do. It is about acknowledging their emotions and showing an understanding for their current emotional state. It doesn’t mean that how they express those feelings...
Fake Confidence: The Queen of Selfies
I don’t have a lot of confidence when it comes to my looks. I know that it might seem different to those seeing my pictures or even those I run into in real life....
How A Porn Film Shaped My Sexuality
Let me tell you a story. I was about 11 years old and I was alone at home. This was in the early 1990s. My parents and my siblings were on a day out...
Tired, oh so tired! – PCOS and Hashimoto’s are a drag!
Hormones. Those buggers! They have a huge influence on how I am doing and what my sexlife looks like. And not only that, they also influence what I look like. I am blessed (*cough*)...
Survival – Without You, Everything Just Falls Apart
Without him, I wouldn’t be able to survive. Now, how many times have I not wanted to slap someone in the face when they expressed a sentiment like that. Particularly women who still go...
Of Purpose Balloons, Quality Of Life and Landmarks
The moment you look at back your life, pondering about what you have achieved so far, can be both satisfying and disappointing. I find the idea of planning things ahead in meticulous detail a...
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