Libido – Between Highs and Lows
Libido, or sexual desire, is complicated.. You can have too much or too little. Sometimes it is overwhelmingly strong but there is no way to make use of it. Other times you would really...
Category: Physical Health
Hugging My Subconscious Mind
I wouldn’t call myself a pessimist. I am more of a realist. You could say that I don’t necessarily see the good, or the bad. I just see things the way that they are....
Childhood Sexual Abuse and Adulthood Gynecological Issues
CW/TW: mention of childhood sexual abuse There are a lot of stigmatized topics in the discourse of sex and relationships. One of the subjects that is often ignored is sexual health. Although there are...
Body Love: W is for Weight
Body weight is such an infected topic. Most people are focused on the numbers and calculate their BMIs to make sure they are what is supposed to be a healthy weight. This has led...
Body Love: U is for Uterus
I was born with an uterus and ovaries. They are part of me. I mostly identify as a cis-female and for many this entails that you embrace the task nature has given you: you...
Body Love: P is for Pain
It might sound weird to say that you love your body’s reaction to pain. But hear me out! I am a masochist, so pain administered during sexual play is a huge turn on for...
Body Love: H is for Hygiene
My German grandmother used to say that I always should wear clean knickers when leaving the house. I need to make sure to have clean fingernails, to bathe and to brush my teeth. Apparently...
Body Love: F is for Fragile
It is hard to love a body that is broken. I have written about my physical health conditions extensively on this blog. But I never shared what it actually feels like to live in...
Eating out when you need to control what you eat
It seems odd to write about eating out in times like these. I actually never thought I’d write about that topic at all. Eating out in a restaurant used to be a luxury for...
Gym Class Ruined Sports For Me
I am not a huge fan of sports or exercise. There, I said it. There were times in my life when I enjoyed being more active, but most of the time, I rather avoid...
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