Self-Sabotage
CW: mention of self-harm but no violent descriptions Self-sabotage sounds like a silly concept. Why would anyone choose to sabotage their own chances of success and well-being? It is not about making mistakes, everyone...
Category: Mental Health
Body Love: I is for Identity
I have talked about my gender identity a few times on this blog and I generally go with that I am a cis-female. And yes, that is true. But also, not always. And if...
Sleepless Puppet – My Struggles with Insomnia
Insomnia has been my constant companion for most of my life. Sleepless nights and staying up until dawn is a normal for me. It is 3 AM at the moment. Point proven. I think...
Littles and Sex – The Importance of Boundaries with Dissociative Identity Disorder
I have written about my Dissociative Identity Disorder before, and the complications and struggles it brings to my life and my relationships. One of the areas that become very complicated is sex. In this...
Denial and Trauma: Not wanting it to be true
CW/TW: Mention of trauma, denial of trauma Denial is the refusal to accept something as true or desired, although evidence doesn’t leave much room for any other explanations. You can deny scientific truths, you...
Perseverance And Fighting On
CW: mention of suicide (no details), mention of trauma (no details) Perseverance is for many linked to concepts of hope and motivation. People want to show to themselves and the world that they can...
A Socially Anxious Puppet
I am an anxious puppet. A very anxious puppet. I sometimes don’t even realize anymore when I am being restless because of anxiety, when I am making decisions based on anxiety or when my...
Toxic Family and Toxic Friendships
There are so many ideas and terms thrown around these days when it comes to describing people who have a negative influence on our lives. Some of them those terms are narcissist, abuse and...
Self-Control Needs to Be My Survival Strategy
Trigger Warning/Content Warning: Mention of self-harm, suicidal behaviour and sexual assault I often feel out of control, which is a very frustrating thing to experience if all you want is to be more in...
My Dissociative Identity Disorder
Trigger warning: Talk of d*ssociation, ab*use, tra*ma I have written about my Dissociative Identity Disorder before, but mostly in connection to my relationship and my sex life. The topic for this week on Sex...
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